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Archives for October 2011

Awkward

October 31, 2011 //  by Nikol//  2 Comments

This is a totally, embarrassing, and awkward post for me, but I really felt like I needed to share this with you. 

Around Memorial Day 2010, I felt God leading me to teach and to write.  I never felt the urge to write anything for anyone.  Even in college, as people would ask if I was going to get a doctorate in Psychology, I would look at them and disgustingly say, “I never want to know enough about something where I could write a book.”  (I’m sure if I had listened close enough, I would’ve heard an angel giggle.) 

With writing not high on the list of dreams, (or even considerations), teaching anything – let alone the word of God – seemed just as unlikely because…well…I never thought about it. 

However, as we know, God has His own plans.  Through some interesting conversations, God confirmed that writing and teaching was what he wanted me to do.  So, I prayed:  “OK, Lord.  Sure.  No problem.  I’ll be glad to teach and write.  If this is what you want me to do, then I’ll need an opportunity.” 

A few weeks later, I received a phone call from a pastor friend of mine and he asked me to speak at the women’s conference he was having at his church that fall. 

 “Ummm…can I pray about that?”  (I know.  I’m a dork.)

A few months later, after watching a bible study video, my sweet friend, Lil, whispered to me:  “I can totally see you doing something like that one day.”

Say WHAT?!

There were a couple of more “unique” experiences that confirmed where God was leading, including meeting Jamie Harper in January 2011.  Turns out she found my blog because – even though she is not a coffee drinker (and is seriously allergic even to the thought of drinking it) – “coffee” had been repeating to her.  So, she did some digging and found my blog…not once…but twice.  Turns out, we go to the same church, and God had been leading her to speak and to write too. 

Weird.

For a few months Jamie and I met not knowing what God was leading us to do but certain that He had a plan.  And guess what?!  He did.  And this is where it gets awkward….

This January, we have been given a great (and humbling, and completely mindboggling) opportunity to teach at the women’s conference at Valleydale Church.  I’ve attached a copy of a flier just in case you’d like to see.  I kind of have to slap myself when I see the fliers all of the church…it’s surreal.  I’d love for you to come and meet Jamie and hopefully learn some really cool things about God. 

You can register by contacting the church at 205.991.5282 or you can email Amy Harris (aharrisathome@yahoo.com).

Regardless of whether or not you can make it, may I be so bold as to ask you for a favor?  Please pray over Jamie and I as we continue to prepare and write and check out Jamie’s blog sometime.  I’m praying that God will do mighty things for those in attendance. 

OK.  Awkwardness over.  [Sigh]

Category: Random

Healing

October 19, 2011 //  by Nikol//  1 Comment

The truck was loaded with some firewood, basic supplies and a warm meal. We pulled the truck off the road and headed up a small trail where we could see our friends huddled around a makeshift fire trying to keep warm. As we made our way toward them, greetings were exchanged and supplies unloaded.

I removed my gloves for a minute and went to shake the hand of a friend who lives under the overpass. He pulled back in horror. His hands were covered in soot from the fire and he refused to shake my hand. With his head bowed and eyes focused on his shoes he muttered, “No. I don’t want to get your hands dirty.”

Talk about awkward.  So, I did the only thing I knew to do and hugged him instead.

I thought about my friend this morning as I was reading the story of Jesus healing the leper in Matthew 8.

Jesus is being followed by a large crowd of people and out of nowhere a leper approaches him, asking for healing and cleansing. This is a bold move because lepers were labeled “unclean” – by God Himself, mind you( Leviticus 13:3) – and were isolated from society. Drawing close to anyone, let alone this Jesus fellow, was risky.

Of course, I love that Jesus healed this man, but today I saw something more to love: “Jesus reached out and touched him” (v. 3). Can you imagine how long it had been since he felt the touch of another?  I wonder if he shrunk back as my friend did.

Notice that Jesus could have simply spoken the healing, as He did in the story that follows, but He didn’t.  Why?  I think He knew this man needed the acceptance that we feel from the loving touch of another.

Have you hugged someone today?  If not (and even if you have) get out there and hug some unsuspecting people! You never know when the last time someone showed them some affection.

 

 

Category: Random, Reflections

Bring It!

October 17, 2011 //  by Nikol//  2 Comments

Me and the girls packed up our tents recently and moved from the Old Testament into the New Testament! I am absolutely flabbergasted that we are 1) still reading and 2) still on schedule. All the glory goes to God for both!

Our trek through the Bible in a Year has certainly had it’s peaks (think Genesis, Exodus, Psalms, Esther) and valleys (think Adam & Eve; Jonah; Ezekiel). But this past week, we got to stick our toes in the New Testament for the first time in nine months! I’ve never been so excited to read about Jesus in my entire life!

Interestingly enough, I’m having to adjust to our new location. I was comfortable in the OT despite the repetitive stories of disaster, destruction and disobedience that went along with it. While the NT it’s certainly a breath of fresh air, it has surprisingly taken some getting used to. It’s clearly a different message, different structure, different tempo, different…everything. But I’m learning to embrace change. Pour on the grace and mercy, and bring me some Jesus!

Category: Random

Unexplainable

October 15, 2011 //  by Nikol//  6 Comments

Hang out with God long enough and weird things start to happen.  Things that some might call “coincidences” come at the most unlikely of places and in the most fascinating ways.  I love to watch God work!

When you go on a mission trip with e3 Partners, they give you one of these bracelets and a really cool t-shirt.

The bracelets and the t-shirts are designed to be conversation starters, and to say they work is an understatement.  (Just ask Robyn about her many experiences trying to explain why she is second to complete strangers.)

My roommate in Peru was a bubbly little twenty-something named Jada.  Jada prays for God to give her unexplainable joy, and trust me when I say that He has not disappointed her.  She is so…very…happy.  And I love her to pieces.

I’ve only known Jada for a few months, but you get to know someone pretty well when you share a small room with them for ten days.

We’ve kept in touch.

We’ve had lunch.

We text message.

We chat on the phone.

We Skype.

We’re tight.

So, when I found out she was spending the night in Birmingham before heading to her second mission trip in almost as many months, I couldn’t resist the urge to take her to dinner and pray over her.

A mission trip send off requires some heavenly food, so I met her and her parents at Leonardo’s fully confident that she would leave carb-loaded and ready to spread some Jesus over India. Her mom needed some comfort food too, because she was nervous about her very precious daughter going to a very foreign place.

We were about 3/4 of the way into our meal, when Jada gasps and blurts out to our waiter:  “OH MY GOSH!  Are you second?  I am too!!!”  

I almost choked on my food.

Turns out, our waiter had on an I Am Second bracelet. What are the odds?

Excited conversation followed and we discovered that he had been to India with e3 Partners…not once…not twice …but three times.

Come ON!  That is all God all the way!

It makes me want to cry to realize that our God orchestrated that dinner…

…at that particular place

…at that particular table

…with that specific waiter

…on that specific day…

…and he did it, not just so I could ooh and ahh over his awesomeness, but to bring comfort to a nervous mom and encouragement for an obedient daughter.

That is one awesome God that I adore.  Praise Him!

Category: Random

A Time

October 4, 2011 //  by Nikol//  4 Comments

I walked outside this morning to a pleasant surprise: a nip in the air. After one crazy, humid, hot summer in the south, I have to admit that I got a little excited.

I love the change of seasons. It forces me to look at the world a bit differently. In the summer, I never notice individual leaves. But in the fall, when one turns a brilliant shade of orange or a vibrant violet, it catches my attention if only for a moment.

How similar are our seasons in life. Some seasons are meant for us to blend: each day a monotony of tasks and – like blades of grass – seemingly identical from the rest.

Then, suddenly our summer fades into fall. Our lives begin to shift and we become vibrant and beautiful with a brilliant purpose: to stand out from the rest.

Days are filled with a vigor unlike the season before. Each one bringing with it a cool breeze refreshing us from the stagnancy and oppressiveness that so often accompanies the end of summer. We feel alive and rejuvenated. There is a spring in our step (pardon the pun), and our souls seem to dance.

I’m wondering what season you are in.

Are you feeling oppressed by the monotony of your summer? Then, step outside for a moment and inhale deeply the crisp, fresh, fall air. See how the leaves swing and sway? Perhaps that is evidence of the season to come.

Or perhaps you are already in a season of fall, and winter is heading your way. As you brace yourself for the chill, enjoy the season of rest and, remember: spring always comes.

Enjoy whatever season you are in knowing that the days of each one are numbered by God himself and each serves His purpose. Let the wisdom of King Solomon settle into your soul.

There is a time for everything,
and a season for every activity under heaven:
a time to be born and a time to die,
a time to plant and a time to uproot,
a time to kill and a time to heal,
a time to tear down and a time to build,
a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance,
a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
a time to embrace and a time to refrain,
a time to search and a time to give up,
a time to keep and a time to throw away,
a time to tear and a time to mend,
a time to be silent and a time to speak,
a time to love and a time to hate,
a time for war and a time for peace.

-Ecclesiastes 3:1-8

Category: Reflections

Music Monday: Sound of Your Voice

October 3, 2011 //  by Nikol//  Leave a Comment

A couple of posts ago, I mentioned the verse Zephaniah 3:17.  This is an obscure verse in the middle of an even more obscure book of the Bible.

God brought this verse, and the concept of him singing over me, to my attention about a year or more ago.  I cannot tell you how many times I see this verse or hear a song that references it.  It’s like God’s little love note to me that pops up in the most unexpected places.  He’s dropped these little sticky notes…

…at work
…in emails
…in the car
…with my friends
…at the beach
…in Peru (yep, in Peru)
…in devotions
…at church
…in books (there is even a book called The Singing God)
…in innumerable songs
…in church bulletins
…on a jumbo-tron at a conference
…and then, last night, in the movie Courageous

Hence our song for Music Monday.  Enjoy.

Sound of Your Voice
I ran away from your love
but you waited for me
yes you waited for me
and then I heard your song
singing over me
singing over me

and now that I hear you, Lord
I want to know you more
I want to know you more

Sing your song to me
oh, there’s no greater thing
than to listen to the sound of your voice
and when I hear your song
I want to sing along
and listen to the sound of your voice

Lord I am calling your name
and I’m waiting for you
yes, I’m waiting for you
so, won’t you show me your ways
and I will follow you
yes, I will follow you

And now that I hear you Lord
I want to know you more
I want to know you more

Sing over me
bringing peace and mercy
with a song that never ends
sing over me
I want to listen for it
Lord, I want to hear your song again.

Category: Music Mondays

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